i had an epiphany yesterday: i should be treating myself like the lover i'm supposedly waiting on!
the bathroom is clean
i've shaven things (or not shaven them)
my body smells like palm kernel & coconut oils
i'm playing pleasant music and burning incense
i have on my sexy around-the-house wear
i threw on my tallest shoes just to go get a glass of iced tea

things like this, we're told we should do for a potential or current (or even an ex!) lover, but what about us. we are the lovers of so many other folks & all these outside things . . . but what about US? we're important too, right?

treat yourselves, sistren, the way you'd want a lover to treat you or even the way you'd treat them!
why?
because it's nobody's job but yours to love you. :D