OK, I met this guy seem to be a cool individual. Good conversation, polite, and funny, right OK. We talked everyday for about 10 days about future goal and accomplishments, what we seek in a relationship etc,etc,etc.. One day he asked me to invite him to my house and I basically told him that my home is a safe haven for my children & myself and that I don't invite men to my house out of respect for my children and their environment. Needless to say he didn't take this too well. He went into this sad story about his childhood how his mother gave him up and kept the rest of her 4 children and how he grew up in foster care until age 18 and that's when he went into the military. He continued to state how he didn't have no one so naturally when he met a woman he expect for her to be by her man's side(when did he become my man?) He continued to state how he was one of the few good men left and that there were many women lined up to take him.. Me being me wished him the best(lol) by all means go for it!